“DNI: freaks” do you realize how conservative you look
freaks please interact
this is the first time one of my posts has been tagged like this and out of all of them i think id be glad if this one got 100k. because firstly i need to find my fellow freaks but also we need to shame people who are anti-freak because like. why do you hate to live deliciously
Why does every drawing of Jesus being crucified make him so hairless and smooth like an oiled seal. Are you telling me he had time to shave his pussy before he got sentenced to death ? No fucking way . I know Judas went down on him au naturel the night before he got him arrested
@kaelynn_vp Tiktok Caption: The key to good communication with autistic people is to be direct. You’ll always get a better response from us when we actually know what you want.
Ok but this video is less than a minute long & yet it perfectly explains how to communicate with “mysterious, confusing, unknowable” autistic people lol. We ofc have different body language as well, & body language is super important in communication, but this video explains verbal communication so well 💖
Video description: a tiktok video by kaelynn_vp, a white blonde person with bangs and long hair. she draws three simple diagrams on a whiteboard to illustrate direct communication, which she describes verbally as follows:
“How to communicate with autistic people: a step by step guide to being direct.
Step one: Think of the message you want to communicate and then verbalize it. Here’s an example. Melissa is exiting the door, she sees that Jay is standing in the way. She thinks of the message she needs to say, she verbalizes it: “Excuse me!” But Jay doesn’t move.
After I verbalized my message and it didn’t work, I go to step two: ask yourself, what do I really want to say? So she says, “Watch out, I’m trying to come through!”
Alright, step three: after two unsuccessful attempts, ask yourself, what does the person need to do with this information? So back to our example, Melissa finally asks herself, what do I want Jay to do with the information that I am giving him right now? So she says, “Take a few steps back, please.” Jay, understanding what she wants him to do, takes a few steps back, allowing her to get through the door.
Direct communication tells someone exactly what they should do with the information that you’re giving them. This eliminates the guesswork, hidden intentions, and implications. end description.
